女生替去世前男友还债，被嘲讽“恋爱脑”？当地妇联回应……

近日，一条“女生替去世前男友照顾家人还债60万”的微博热搜，引发关注。

A recent hashtag on Chinese social media—"Woman repays 600,000 yuan debt to care for deceased ex-boyfriend's family"—has gone viral, drawing widespread attention.

据掌上衡阳消息，2016年6月19日，湖南衡阳女孩王婷相恋多年的男友曾志遭遇车祸，被夺走生命，并留下高达60万元的债务。

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另据红网报道，王婷表示，欠债来源主要是人员工资、进货欠款和朋友借款。王婷知道，这些债务的背后，是一个个家庭的期待与信任。她决定：“曾志虽然走了，但我不能让他背负着失信的骂名离开，我要替他把这些债还清。”

最终，王婷花光了自己的积蓄，还向朋友借了6万多元，还清了债务。

According to Hengyang Daily, Wang Ting, a woman from Hengyang, Hunan province, lost her longtime boyfriend, Zeng Zhi, in a tragic car accident on June 19, 2016. The accident not only took Zeng’s life but also left behind debts totaling 600,000 yuan, primarily from unpaid wages, supplier bills, and personal loans.

In an interview with Rednet News, Wang explained that she felt compelled to honor the trust placed in Zeng by creditors, many of whom were families relying on the owed funds. "Even though Zeng is gone, I couldn’t let him leave this world labeled as untrustworthy. I had to clear his name," she said. To settle the debts, Wang exhausted her savings and even borrowed an additional 60,000 yuan from friends.

在相关报道的评论区中，不少人对王婷的行为表示不解，甚至还给她贴上了“挖野菜的王宝钏””恋爱脑典范”等标签。

也有网友称每个人价值观不同，没有必要嘲讽王婷。

The story, however, has sparked polarized reactions online. While some netizens praised Wang’s integrity, others criticized her decision and questioning her as a "paragon of blind romance". 

Conversely, supporters defended her choice, emphasizing respect for personal values. "Everyone has different priorities—there’s no need to mock her kindness," one user wrote.

据九派新闻消息，4月14日，衡阳县妇联一名工作人员表示，不清楚她帮前男友还债的事情，她之前也没有主动提过。

针对网上的舆论争议，她表示：“觉得是正能量的就可以去做，随便别人怎么说。”该工作人员还称，王婷原生家庭不是很好，但她能吃苦，很善良，热衷公益事业，“上个月还资助了一个学生一万块钱”。

When contacted by Jiupai News on Monday, a staff member from the Hengyang County Women’s Federation stated they were unaware of Wang’s actions, noting she had never sought assistance. The representative added that Wang, despite coming from a disadvantaged background, is known for her resilience and generosity. "Last month, she donated 10,000 yuan to support a student’s education," they revealed.

对于王婷近些年的创业经历，掌上衡阳在报道中提到：

这些年，王婷先是南下广东等地做生意，后又返乡创业，在集兵镇麻町村流转土地5000多亩，一口气种了用材林4000亩，油茶800亩，碧根果、锥栗、贵妃橙等经济林种300多亩，并从炎陵引进黄桃树苗，在岣嵝峰种植黄桃1000多亩；创建了衡阳新铭黄桃专业种植合作社；2022年，王婷又创办一家食品有限公司，目前正在打造一处集种植、旅游、住宿、餐饮于一体的以“爱”为主题的青春乐园与研学基地。

4月14日，有媒体就“王婷被嘲讽”一事发表评论:

回看王婷还债的过程，她并不是盲目牺牲，没苦硬吃，而是通过勤俭奋斗、创业打拼的方式增加收入，她返乡发展特色农业，打造集种植、旅游、住宿、餐饮于一体的乡村研学基地，解决了近100人的就业问题，她用自己的努力弥补了爱人的遗憾，实现了事业理想，造福桑梓回馈社会，绽放出了属于女性的温润光芒，这与那些所谓的“遭遇情感勒索”“自苦式付出”有着本质区别......我们不能一边高喊打破对女性的“道德绑架”，一边对女性的个人选择吹毛求疵，制造新的“道德枷锁”，否定一切情感表达。

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来源：中国青年报 衡阳晚报 掌上衡阳 红网 九派新闻 极目新闻等