情侣在演唱会求婚遭后排喊“坐下”，拍摄者：花几千元买票只想安静听歌；网友吵翻……

双语君2026年09月15日约 3 分钟

据潇湘晨报，9月12日，赵雷北京鸟巢演唱会现场，前排一名男观众突然向女友求婚，女方激动站起，导致后排观众齐声高喊“坐下”。相关视频在网上引发大量讨论。

A marriage proposal during a Zhao Lei concert in Beijing has ignited a fierce online debate about public etiquette and the boundaries of romantic gestures at live events.

14日，潇湘晨报记者采访到视频拍摄者解先生，他表示自己花大几千元购票，只想安静听歌，并发布视频还原了当晚的经过。

解先生称，演唱会现场，A1区前排一对穿婚纱礼服、戴头纱的观众突然站起，周围几排观众齐喊“坐下”。随后二人开始撒糖，引发周围人争抢，有人被砸，现场一度骚动，六七名保安赶来制止。

According to Xiaoxiang Morning Herald, the incident occurred on Saturday during a performance by the singer Zhao Lei. A man seated in the front row suddenly proposed to his girlfriend, who stood up in excitement. The moment quickly drew ire from surrounding rows, with audience members shouting "Sit down!" Several rows of spectators joined in the chorus of complaints.

The couple, dressed in a wedding gown and suit, then began tossing candy to the crowd, prompting a scramble among nearby attendees. Some were reportedly hit by the thrown sweets, and the scene briefly descended into chaos. Six or seven security guards intervened to restore order.

他随手将视频发上平台，浏览量从十几万涨至两百多万，评论区支持与反对声音交锋，自己也收到大量私信。

A spectator surnamed Xie, who filmed the scene, told Xiaoxiang Morning Herald that he had paid several thousand yuan for his ticket and simply wanted to enjoy the music in peace. He posted the video online, where it quickly went viral.

解先生表示，后来自称当事人的网友私信自己，称已报警并启动司法程序，要求下架视频。解先生在视频最后也表达了自己的看法：他并非反对演唱会求婚，但认为要分场合。他称看台那几位站在过道求婚“还挺好”，保安一边鼓掌一边劝坐。

He later revealed that someone claiming to be the proposer had messaged him, saying they had contacted police and initiated legal proceedings, demanding the video be taken down. In his post, Xie clarified that he was not opposed to proposals at concerts in principle, but believed they should be appropriate to the setting.

事件一出，相关话题直接冲上热搜榜榜首，网友吵翻了。

不少网友表示不认同，花钱买演唱会门票，是来看喜欢的歌手演出的，不是围观陌生人的私人仪式：“所有人几乎都是为了自己偶像才来看演唱会的，被耽误了看演出，换谁都不能开心吧。”

也有网友愿意送上祝福：“不是每个人都能有那么大勇气……送上祝福比耽误一会儿演唱会更有意义！”

Many users argued that ticket buyers pay to see their favorite artist, not to witness a stranger's private ceremony. Others were more sympathetic. "Not everyone has that kind of courage," one user wrote. "Offering blessings is more meaningful than losing a few minutes of the concert."