新人办婚宴请亲朋吃外卖，有麻辣烫、炸鸡、奶茶……新娘：每人100餐标，不必拘泥传统

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据极目新闻10月27日报道，10月26日，黑龙江大庆一名网友发布视频称去参加朋友婚宴，吃了一桌外卖，引发热议。

视频画面显示，一场婚礼上众多宾客齐聚一堂，其中一桌的菜品并非盛在盘子里的传统中餐，而是一袋袋打包好的外卖，有烤鸭、麻辣烫、炸鸡、奶茶等。

婚宴上点的外卖（视频截图）

A wedding banquet in Daqing, Heilongjiang province, has sparked online debate after three tables of guests chose takeout over traditional wedding dishes.

According to Jimu News, a video posted on Monday showed bags of roast duck, malatang, fried chicken and milk tea at a hotel wedding.

视频发布者马女士向记者表示，自己是新娘的朋友。10月26日中午，她应邀到黑龙江一家酒店参加婚礼，其中婚宴上的外卖其实是她和其他朋友主动要求的。

据新娘李女士介绍，婚宴共有30桌，只有她朋友的3桌点了外卖，其他桌都是正常的婚礼宴席，“他们不愿意吃席，我就给他们点了外卖，想吃什么点什么，一个人100元的餐标。”

Ma, a friend of the bride, said she and other friends had requested the takeout. The bride, Li, said the wedding had 30 tables, with only the three tables of her friends opting for takeout. Each guest had a budget of 100 yuan and could choose what they wanted to eat.

马女士朋友的婚礼（视频截图）

她表示家人们都非常尊重他们的想法，婚宴都是他们自己安排的，她开玩笑道“要不是为了配合长辈，整个婚宴我都想定成外卖桌。”她说年轻人就该有年轻人的结婚方式，自己之前参加婚宴就不爱吃席面上的饭，“来参加婚礼就是图个喜庆，想吃啥吃啥，不必拘泥于传统。”

Li said her family respected their choice and joked that she would have made the entire banquet takeout if not for the need to accommodate older relatives.

"Young people should have their own way of getting married," Li said, adding that guests should be free to eat what they like rather than sticking to tradition.

有网友表示：“年轻人很有想法，顾及了不同的需求。”